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Proverbs and wise sayings appear throughout the text. The central proverb is the book’s title, which comes from a Cambodian saying about “what happens when good and evil are thrown together in the river of life” (19). In this saying, good is represented by a type of squash, klok, and evil by armbaeg, broken glass. Chea explains that while it may appear as if evil is winning, eventually good always triumphs: “The good will win over the evil. Now, klok sinks, and broken glass floats. But armbaeg will not float long. Soon klok will float instead, and then the good will prevail” (19).
Athy relies on this proverb to survive the darkest days of the Khmer Rouge’s regime, the loss of her parents and siblings, and starvation and illness. It previews the text’s content, which describes this period of broken glass floating, the Khmer Rouge regime, and also previews Athy’s basic optimism. She believes that injustice cannot prevail, at least not for long, and is eventually proven right.
Other proverbs guide the story as well. Before the Khmer Rouge come to power, Athy’s parents warn her that there “comes a time when a grain of rice sticks on a dog’s tail, and everyone will fight for it” (51). This saying initially bewilders Athy, but soon enough it makes perfect sense to her, and she realizes what her parents were trying to say: When people are desperate, they will do things they never thought possible. Athy, for example, will eat silkworms and burned rice; Mak will go without food to feed her children.
Other proverbs are used throughout the story to explain Athy’s behavior. When she and Cheng are trapped in the labor camp, she thinks of the proverb that states, “[a]t home there’s a separate mother, in the forest there’s only one mother” (136), to explain the closeness she feels to Cheng. Similarly, when she devours the food Barang gives her, she doesn’t feel guilty over her poor table manners. Instead, she remembers: “Follow the river by its winding path, follow the province/state according to its country” (211). In other words, one’s behavior must be guided by one’s conditions. Table manners may have been necessary once, but not during war or starvation.
Toward the story’s end, Athy relates rumors of purges among the Khmer Rouge leadership, with those from Southwestern Cambodia eliminating other leaders. The people are not supposed to know about these rumors, and they are forbidden to speak of them. Athy uses another proverb to illustrate how that is an impossible task: “Domrei gnob khom yok chon-ey tao kroob,” which means trying to cover a dead elephant with a “flat basket” (219). In many ways this saying encapsulates what the Khmer Rouge are attempting to do over all: to completely change a culture, to eliminate family ties, to turn children against parents and parents against culture. It’s an impossible and cruel process, and Athy relies on traditional Cambodian sayings and wisdom to remind herself of this repeatedly.
Dreams play an important role in the memoir. In fact, it opens with Athy recounting her dream, a nightmare, in which the United States has been invaded. She is trying to find her baby brother, Map, to keep a promise “made to the spirit of [her] mother,” a promise “made in another dream which [she] must honor” (13). This nightmare foreshadows her story of a childhood disrupted by war and of trying to connect with and protect her family while struggling to survive herself.
Unlike this nightmare, however, many of Athy’s other dreams reflect her spiritual and cultural beliefs. In Cambodian culture, dreams are just one of many ways the spirits of deceased loved ones try to communicate with the living. For example, after the Khmer Rouge execute Pa, Mak dreams of him coming to her and trying to tell her something, though in the dream he does not have a head. Athy and her family consider this a bad omen.
Similarly, Athy dreams of Mak after her death. In the dream Mak appears healthy and strong, and insists Athy promise to take care of Map. Athy takes great pains to keep this promise, even sending food to Chea and Map with Barang, a former Khmer Rouge official who once shared food with Athy and her sister Ra. Athy is devastated to learn that Barang ate the food, but she nonetheless does her best to fulfill her promise to Mak, and Map survives the Khmer Rouge’s regime thanks to the efforts of Athy and her siblings.
Athy also dreams of Chea after Chea’s death. As in her dream about Mak, Chea appears healthy and strong. Athy takes great comfort from this dream, and it seems to reflect her beliefs about the afterlife, with Chea being welcomed into a “special home” above the clouds (239). Athy asks Chea to wait for her, before Ry wakes her and comforts her.
Although this dream seems to upset Athy, it also gives her hope that even if she cannot be with Chea and her other family members in life, she will be reunited with them in death, where their suffering will cease. Just as Mak’s disturbing dream of a headless Pa foreshadowed more pain for the family, Athy’s dream of a joyous Chea foreshadows the end of their suffering.
George Orwell’s 1984, a classic examination of dictatorial governments, introduces the concept of doublethink, which means:
The power of holding two contradictory beliefs in one’s mind simultaneously, and accepting both of them. […] To tell deliberate lies while genuinely believing in them, to forget any fact that has become inconvenient, and then, when it becomes necessary again, to draw it back from oblivion for just so long as it is needed, to deny the existence of objective reality and all the while to take account of the reality which one denies—all this is indispensably necessary. (Orwell, George. Nineteen Eighty-Four. London: Secker & Warburg. 1949.)
The Khmer Rouge exemplifies doublethink, and the memoir records many examples of their hypocrisy.
Athy scrutinizes the Khmer Rouge’s hypocrisy not simply to demonstrate why the regime was cruel or heartless but to maintain her own sanity. It can become difficult to remember what things were like before war or hardship, especially for someone as young as Athy. She thus keeps track of the Khmer Rouge’s many lies and deceits, which helps her retain hope and optimism that the regime will fall.
For example, the Khmer Rouge declare that all young adults should marry and have children, to repopulate Cambodia with true believers. They call this “chamren pracheachun, the need to increase the population” for the Khmer Rouge (240). They threaten anyone who refuses with being sent to the front lines. Ra decides to marry a local man to avoid such a fate. However, Athy recalls seeing the Khmer Rouge execute a man and a woman who are lovers. The woman is pregnant, and after beating the woman to death, the executioner “strikes the body repeatedly until the struggle in it stops” (247). Athy notes that had the Khmer Rouge truly valued children, they never would have executed this couple or killed their child.
Furthermore, if the Khmer Rouge truly valued children, they would have treated the Cambodian children better. Instead, they are starved and worked beyond endurance, and many of them, including Athy’s siblings, die from illnesses and starvation. The Khmer Rouge’s insistence on the value of children is classic doublethink that insists that the Cambodian people disregard the evidence of their own eyes to believe only what they are told.
These experiences with Orwellian doublethink under the Khmer Rouge alter Athy’s personality, and she refuses to tolerate lies and hypocrisy once they are overthrown. For instance, she challenges the principal of the school in the refugee camp who unfairly accuses her of cheating, and she even scolds Than for his impatience with their baby brother Map. She exemplifies the opposite of doublethink: speaking truth to power, no matter how inconvenient or uncomfortable.