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55 pages 1 hour read

Danielle Steel

Triangle

Fiction | Novel | Adult | Published in 2024

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Themes

The Link Between Love and Marriage

Content Warning: This section discusses sexual assault, attempted rape, and stalking.

Marriage is often a reflection of love. However, Triangle explores how love and marriage can exist independently and the complications arising when love and marriage are disconnected. Through its characters and their relationships, the novel dissects cultural expectations, personal sacrifices, and the pursuit of happiness within and outside the bounds of marriage.

Armand and Felicia provide an initial example of the tension between love and marriage for Amanda. They marry for love, but their differing values and cultural expectations ultimately destroy their relationship. Armand’s infidelity, which he dismisses as inconsequential, becomes unbearable for Felicia, illustrating how love is insufficient when trust and respect are compromised. Even after their divorce, Armand and Felicia continue to love each other, highlighting that often, love alone cannot sustain a marriage. Their failed relationship impacts Amanda, shaping her skepticism about romantic commitment as she matures.

Amanda’s relationship with Gregoire deepens the exploration of love and marriage. Although Gregoire assures Amanda that he has separated from his wife, he prioritizes his marriage when threatened with divorce. While Gregoire may have loved Amanda during their three-year relationship, his loyalty to his wife demonstrates how external pressures can outweigh personal feelings. This experience further disillusions Amanda and causes her to further guard her emotions. 

Olivier and Stephanie’s marriage presents another lens through which Triangle examines the disconnect between love and marriage. They marry young, mistaking friendship and social compatibility for romantic love. Over time, their marriage becomes a hollow shell, sustained by social obligation rather than emotional connection. Olivier remains married to Stephanie to avoid the divorce’s financial and social costs. Stephanie, in turn, uses the marriage as a facade, allowing her to maintain a long-term relationship with her true love, Lizzie, without confronting societal judgment for her sexuality to live openly. 

Despite their mutual infidelity, Olivier and Stephanie never openly discuss their extramarital affairs. Their silence reflects the stagnation of their marriage—a union that offers security but stifles authenticity. This arrangement leaves both partners unfulfilled, underscoring the emotional toll of sacrificing personal happiness for appearances. Olivier’s affair with Amanda reignites his desire for genuine love, while Stephanie’s accident forces her to confront the charade of her marriage and embrace her identity.

In Triangle, marriage is not a straightforward reflection of love but an institution shaped by a confluence of societal expectations, cultural norms, and personal sacrifices. The novel’s characters grapple with the tension between societal obligation and emotional fulfillment. In exploring love, infidelity, and self-discovery and the challenges amid conventional notions of marriage, Danielle Steel emphasizes that true happiness requires honesty and courage. Once the characters can confront what is impeding their romantic satisfaction, they can take steps to better experience its possibilities—evident in Stephanie and Lizzie and Amanda and Olivier’s unions by the novel’s end.

Appearances, Perceptions, and Reality

At the novel’s heart is Amanda Delanoe, whose life appears perfect to outsiders. Amanda exudes success and sophistication as the owner of a prestigious Parisian art gallery. She has a loyal circle of friends, a beautiful home, and a successful career. However, this facade conceals a life shaped by unresolved traumas and failed romantic relationships. Amanda’s mistrust of romantic partners stems from her past experiences with infidelity and deception, yet her polished exterior gives little indication of her internal struggles. Her relationship with Olivier initially seems idyllic, but the reality of his complicated marriage quickly disrupts their connection. 

Olivier also illustrates the tension between appearances and reality. Olivier projects an image of stability and charm as an affluent publisher. However, his marriage to Stephanie is a façade that masks their incompatible desires and lack of intimacy. Olivier’s reluctance to divorce Stephanie reflects his adherence to social expectations, even as his love for Amanda exposes the emotional void in his life. His dual existence underscores how societal pressures can force individuals to maintain appearances at the expense of their authenticity and happiness.

Stephanie’s story further probes the theme of appearances versus reality and its impact on individuals. As Olivier’s wife and an affluent woman, she fulfills her role as a respectable matriarch. However, beneath this exterior lies a woman grappling with her true identity. Stephanie’s long-term relationship with Lizzie, concealed under the guise of friendship, highlights the conflict between societal perceptions and the desire to live openly. Her eventual decision to embrace her sexuality marks a turning point in the novel.

As the novel’s antagonist, Tom illustrates how outward charm can conceal a violent, dangerous reality. His physical description—tall, athletic, clean-cut, and all-American—immediately evokes an image of someone trustworthy and unthreatening. Amanda’s initial reaction to him reflects this perception: She views him as a figure from her past, someone who should be familiar and perhaps even benign. However, as the story unfolds, Tom’s true nature emerges, and it becomes clear that his outward appearance is a mask hiding a much more predatory reality.

As Tom becomes more fixated on Amanda, his behavior shifts from harmless affection to increasingly invasive and dangerous actions. Tom’s pursuit of Amanda is manipulative, coercive, and ultimately violent. His initial portrayal as a well-groomed, educated man—coupled with his familiarity as Amanda’s ex-boyfriend—hides his darker tendencies, including a criminal history, a violent assault on his wife, and a complete disregard for boundaries or consent. Steel demonstrates that what makes Tom’s character particularly dangerous is his ability to manipulate perceptions, not only of Amanda but of everyone around him. When Amanda begins to suspect Tom may be her stalker, Pascal dismisses her concerns, downplaying Tom’s potential threat by stating, “He’s not a cat burglar or a pervert, he’s just a shit” (180). Even the police fall prey to Tom’s manipulation. Upon hearing about the break-in at Amanda’s apartment, they describe him as calm, polite, and sympathetic—much so that they fail to conduct a basic fingerprinting procedure. Tom’s ability to project an air of composure and sympathy is so convincing that it blinds others to the possibility of his guilt, allowing him to avoid suspicion entirely. 

Through its characters, Triangle reveals how appearances and perceptions often distort reality and have dangerous ramifications. Steel critiques the societal pressures that encourage people to maintain façades and emphasizes that personal fulfillment lies in embracing authenticity. In doing so, the novel underscores how its characters must question their assumptions and look beyond the surface to uncover the truth.

Embracing Vulnerability in Interpersonal and Romantic Relationships

Steel’s Triangle delves into characters’ struggles embracing vulnerability in interpersonal and romantic relationships, particularly Amanda, Stephanie, and Lizzie. These characters grapple with societal expectations, personal insecurities, and past traumas as they strive to live authentically and achieve fulfillment. 

Amanda, a successful and poised woman, conceals deep-seated insecurities rooted in past romantic relationships. Although she is outwardly successful, her relationships suffer because she cannot fully trust others. Her connection with Olivier forces her to confront her fears of intimacy and vulnerability. When Amanda learns that Olivier has been withholding the fact that he is married, she perceives it as a betrayal, which reignites her fears and mistrust. Having been hurt in her previous relationship for the same reason, she struggles to trust her judgment. This makes Olivier’s deception feel like another emotional blow that destabilizes her ability to be vulnerable romantically.

However, through introspection and personal growth, Amanda realizes that her feelings for Olivier run deeper than her fears. Despite their relationship’s ups and downs, Amanda gradually trusts herself and her instincts again. As she navigates her evolving connection with Olivier, she learns that achieving romantic fulfillment requires confronting past wounds and embracing the vulnerability that comes with taking emotional risks. Through this journey, Amanda begins to understand that to find love, she must trust both herself and those she allows into her life.

Stephanie, in contrast, embarks to embrace vulnerability and directly challenge societal norms and expectations. When Stephanie marries Olivier, she enters a traditional marriage, expecting it to provide fulfillment. However, as time passes, she realizes the marriage lacks the emotional connection she craves. Stephanie’s relationship with Lizzie, which begins as a hidden love affair, represents her path toward embracing her true self. Throughout the years, she suppresses her love for women to maintain a facade of a fulfilling, heterosexual marriage. After her accident, Stephanie confronts her feelings and openly admits her sexuality to Olivier; doing so allows her to embrace her identity and live authentically. Her emotional growth is particularly significant as it reflects a liberation from the societal pressures of her upbringing that instilled in her the values that familial duty should supersede personal happiness. 

While more outwardly self-assured than Stephanie, Lizzie also grapples with her identity. Disowned by her family after coming out, Lizzie must navigate the world without the support of her traditional family structure. Her relationship with Stephanie offers her a sense of belonging but also requires her to respect Stephanie’s desire for secrecy. Although Lizzie does not repress her sexuality, she still faces judgment from others and must reconcile her private and public selves—particularly to align with Stephanie’s wishes as a loving partner.

Amanda, Stephanie, and Lizzie all confront different aspects of their lives that force them to confront who they are. By the novel’s end, they achieve interpersonal and romantic happiness due to their actions. In doing so, Steel explores how embracing vulnerability is not just an internal journey; it also requires confronting the outside world and taking the necessary steps to navigate both the limitations and opportunities it presents.

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