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Before her death, Chick’s mother had worked as a beautician for homebound older women, and she has three of these appointments during her day together with Chick, in the narrative’s present. Together, they walk to the first appointment, and Chick’s mother asks him if he is okay. The weather, she says, reminds him of the day he was born. She tells him how she prayed for a child for three years after she was married, and even carved the word ‘PLEASE’ into a tree as a prayer, because “[trees] spend all day looking up at God” (55). By telling him this story, she acknowledges that he is in emotional as well as physical pain, and reminds him how important he is to those who love him. He finds this hard to accept, and thinks longingly about drinking, conscious that he uses alcohol to avoid facing these feelings.
He remembers how, though his mother - “Charming Posey” - was outgoing and well-liked before her divorce, afterward she became somewhat of an outcast. Their family spent holidays alone, a result of their neighbors’ discomfort with Posey as a single woman and mother. His mother makes the best of the situation and tries to portray this as a choice, rather than an unfortunate circumstance. A particularly bittersweet memory is recalled by Chick: his mother dressed up as Santa Claus for Christmas when his younger sister was six. Chick reveals that “Santa” is actually their mom, leaving his mother angry and his sister in tears: “I keep that light on my mother and I see her posture change - her head drops back, her shoulders slump, like a fugitive Santa caught by the cops” (58).
Chick and his mother arrive at the house of her first client, Rose, an elderly woman who is hard of hearing. Rose mentions she heard a news report about a terrible car accident, and Chick is overcome with anxiety and guilt: “I scanned my mother’s face, expecting her to turn and demand my confession. Admit what you did, Charley” (60). Chick is almost surprised when he realizes they don’t know about his involvement in the accident.
When Chick was a teenager, his mother was fired from her nursing job because she had been sexually harassed by a doctor and had reported the incident. She later became a hairdresser, which led her to work with homebound women. When she was a nurse, she would often care for her patients’ appearance as much as their health, believing it helped them feel better and sped up the recovery process. His mother had loved being a nurse, and would often talk about her patients at home as if they were close friends.
Chick remembers that at fourteen his mother found out that he had been smoking. Chick had yelled at her for being a hypocrite - she is also a smoker - and criticized the fashionable, somewhat revealing clothing she’d worn to her new job. She slaps him, and he runs out of the house.
Posey and Rose discuss their friendship and their relationships with their children as Posey does Rose’s hair. Chick is filled with remorse for the way he treated his mother when he was a teenager, and notices with some surprise his mother’s pride in her work. Chick thinks of his own daughter, and wonders for the first time if his father’s actions might have indirectly shaped Chick’s relationship with his own child. A phone rings, and when he answers, a man’s voice is screaming Chick’s name, referring to the accident and asking to talk to him. Overwhelmed, Chick hangs up the phone without saying anything.
He remembers an instance, three years after his father left the family, when his sister wakes his mother up in the middle of the night, claiming she has heard a robber. His mother asks Chick for his baseball bat and goes downstairs to investigate. They hear noises and a man’s voice, and then their mother tells them that everything is all right. Chick understands that his father has come to the house and that his mother has forced him to leave. Chick resents her for this.
When Chick returns to the kitchen, where his mother and Rose are, he cannot explain who was on the phone, and quickly falls asleep. As he is drifting off, he remembers his mother teaching him to shave for the first time, a rite of passage that they both understand to be something his father would have done for him if he were there. He then remembers Halloween, when he was 16, when a neighbor woman’s friendly attitude disappears as soon as she finds out that they are Posey Benetto’s children, as the woman believes their mother is attempting to seduce her husband.
Rose shows them to the door after Chick’s mother finishes her hair and makeup. His mother suggests they eat lunch. Rose says that she had her hair and makeup done because it is a special occasion; she is going to see her husband. His mother tells Chick that Rose will die tonight; Posey seems happy and at peace with the fact that she is “helping her get ready” (74). The phrase, “going to see her husband” takes on new meaning for Chick.
These chapters show the reader how an adult Chick copes with the shame he feels at his behavior as an adolescent. Much of this shame centers on his treatment of his mother during that time, and her gentle, forgiving presence helps him work through these feelings.
In retrospect, he is ashamed of his attachment to his absent father over his mother, despite her constant care and presence. Though he was as hurt by his father’s actions as she was, she received the brunt of Chick’s resentment: “I was uncomfortable with her womanly figure and I was angry that she was the only divorced woman around. I wanted her to behave like other mothers, wearing housedresses, making scrapbooks, baking brownies” (66). Chick associated this stereotypical “motherly,” feminine behavior with an earlier state of wholeness which he feels slipping further and further away, though as an adult that remembered feeling of loss pales in comparison to the loss he felt after his mother’s death.
His mother and Rose laugh knowingly with one another about how mean children can sometimes be to their parents, but at the same time they acknowledge that for Chick, and for everyone, this behavior is the result of pain. Chick initially feels exposed by this realization, but begins to understand that it might hold insights for his behavior toward his own daughter. As he understands his own behavior more, he discovers a way to frame the hurt he feels from not being invited to his daughter’s wedding. Finally, in Chapter 14, the mystery of Chick’s mother’s presence begins to unravel as she reveals that she knows that Rose will die that night, and that she has come to help her prepare. Though this is a relatively minor development in this section, it foreshadows the process that occurs later, when Chick must return alone to the world he knows.
By Mitch Albom