Becoming: Adapted for Young Readers

Barack Obama plays a central role in Michelle’s memoir, both as her husband and as a significant, history-making political leader on the global stage. As the 44th President of the United States, Barack’s political career and personal philosophy deeply impact the themes and events of the memoir. Michelle introduces Barack as a man of vision and idealism, whose commitment to public service shapes not only his life but also the lives of those around him, including Michelle and their daughters, Malia and Sasha.

Michelle characterizes Barack as a partner with whom she shares a deep connection, grounded in mutual respect, shared values, and a deep love for their family. His presence in the memoir remains significant throughout the story, as Michelle recounts how his decision to enter politics fundamentally altered the course of their lives. From his early days as a community organizer in Chicago to his rise to the US Senate and eventually the presidency, Barack’s career is driven by the constant pursuit of justice, equality, and hope. In fact, Barack’s own journey led him to publish his own books, Dreams From My Father (1995), The Audacity of Hope (2006), and A Promised Land (2020). These ideals resonate throughout the memoir, influencing Michelle's narrative and shaping the themes of identity, sacrifice, and public service.

Barack’s influence on the dynamics of the memoir is evident in the way Michelle navigates the challenges of being a political spouse—a role she never initially envisioned for herself. His political ambitions demand sacrifices from Michelle, who must balance her career aspirations and personal life with the demands of the campaign trail and, later, life in the White House. Michelle candidly discusses the strain that Barack’s political career placed on their marriage and family, yet she also highlights how they worked together to maintain their bond and support each other’s goals.

In the broader context of Becoming, Barack symbolizes the intersection of personal and public life, illustrating the complexities of leadership and the impact of political life on a family. His presence in the memoir highlights the importance of partnership, communication, and resilience in the face of challenges. Through Michelle’s eyes, Barack is not only a historical figure but also a loving husband and father whose ideals and actions have shaped the course of their shared journey.

Fraser Robinson III, Michelle’s father, is a deeply influential figure in her memoir—one that she portrays as the bedrock of her family, who instills in her the values of hard work, integrity, and resilience that will guide her throughout her life. Born in South Carolina during the era of segregation, Fraser moved to Chicago, where he worked as a city water plant employee, a job he held for decades despite being diagnosed with multiple sclerosis. His decision to continue working tirelessly, even as his condition progressively worsened, left a lasting impression on Michelle, and taught her the importance of perseverance in the face of adversity.

Fraser’s influence on Michelle is evident in her perspective on the world and her place in it. She describes him as a man who valued honesty and accountability—principles central to the lessons he imparted to his children. In the memoir, Michelle reflects on how her father never complained about his illness, even as it took a toll on his body, instead choosing to focus on his responsibilities to his family. This quiet strength and determination became a model for Michelle, which shaped her approach to challenges both personal and professional.

In the memoir, Fraser Robinson III symbolizes the power of paternal love and sacrifice. His support for Michelle and her brother Craig, encouraging them to pursue their education and dreams, is a recurring motif in the story of her life. Fraser believed in the importance of education, despite not having the opportunity to pursue higher education himself, and this belief fueled Michelle’s academic ambitions. His daily routine of getting up early, dressing with care, and going to work, despite the physical pain he endured, demonstrated to Michelle the value of perseverance and self-respect.

Michelle notes Fraser’s influence not only in her work ethic and commitment to her values but also in her ability to remain grounded and connected to her roots, no matter how far she has risen in resources and status. Through her memoir, Michelle honors her father’s memory by highlighting the significant impact he had on her life, shaping her into the woman she would become.

Michelle characterizes Valerie Jarrett, as a close friend, mentor, and trusted advisor to both Michelle and Barack. Born in Iran to American parents, Valerie Jarrett is a highly respected attorney, businesswoman, and civic leader. Her professional journey brings her to Chicago, where she gets involved in local politics and public service, eventually serving as the Deputy Chief of Staff for then-Mayor Richard M. Daley. It is in this role that Valerie first crosses paths with Michelle, offering her a position in the mayor’s office, which marks the beginning of their enduring professional and personal relationship.

In Becoming, Michelle highlights Valerie’s role not just as a mentor, but as someone who influences her understanding of work-life balance, public service, and the complexities of navigating a career in the public eye. Valerie’s experience and wisdom provide Michelle with guidance as she transitions from her career in law and public service to the highly visible role of the First Lady. Valerie is instrumental in helping Michelle find her footing in the demanding and often overwhelming world of politics, offering her support, counsel, and friendship during some of the most challenging moments of her life.

Valerie Jarrett’s influence extends beyond her professional advice; she also plays a crucial role in the Obama family’s personal life. Michelle describes Valerie as part of their inner circle, someone who is there not only for strategic advice but also as a confidante who understands the pressures and responsibilities that come with their public roles. Valerie’s presence in the memoir highlights the importance of strong, supportive relationships, especially for women in leadership. Her ability to balance her own demanding career with her commitment to public service and her role as a mentor to Michelle highlights the themes of resilience, community, and the power of female friendships that run throughout Becoming.